The Point of Purpose

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The point of purpose is that it points you in a direction.

When you don’t have purpose your bearings are all wrong. You have no idea what is the right direction, the wrong direction, your north to your south or your east to your west. More than having no idea about where the directions are, you simply don’t even know where it is you want to go.

And when you don’t have purpose, you don’t have a need to discover and find out where it is that your life is going… Because there’s no point or purpose to.

See, hope seeks purpose, and purpose seeks motivation, and motivation seeks action.

When you have a hope for your future you have a purpose to do stuff. Hope gives you a vision, purpose points you in the right direction, motivation is the attitude to get going with the steps, and action is the hard work it takes for you actually get there. If you lose one of these, you become stuck.

That’s why hope is important and is a common theme on this space.

But hope is nothing without purpose.

The great thing about having hope is that it gets you looking forward and up.

The great thing about purpose is that it at least points you in a direction. Any direction is good because to get somewhere, anywhere, you at least need to be pointing a direction, rather than down at your feet. Once you get moving, it’s easier to make changes to your path and adapt along the way.

And when hope and purpose are united together, inseparable to the core, beautiful things are made of our lives.

Purpose is the backbone to your greatest dreams, desires, and hopes. It fuels your motivation and not only gives you that little shove you need to get moving.

In Greek, the word for purpose is telos; which means an end, purpose, or goal.

Purpose doesn’t just see the end or goal, but it sees the why behind the what. That’s what makes it so vital. It sees the impact it will have on people, the seeds of influence it will sow, the immediate responses, and the chain reactions you may never know about from people you’ll never meet. It sees beyond yourself and into the legacy created from it.

The best kind of purpose is a selfish-selfless purpose. One that knows they’re the exact person created for the job and that it’s benefit and purpose has nothing to do with them, but everything to do with what it will bring to others.

And it all starts when you point yourself in a direction. Start walking and you’ll find the right path.

When You’re Not Inspired

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When you’re not inspired, getting work done can feel like an absolute bore.

The words are just lines holding no emotion or story. And each step can feel as though you’re pulling a freight train.

When you’re not inspired, you spend countless hours trying to find where inspiration is hiding.

You hope that if you click on one more page link, get out + about, read others words + more, that you’ll be a little closer to finding the hidden gem. But all you end up doing is procrastinating + finding interesting irrelevant pieces to store away hoping you can use them them in the future.

Inspiration isn’t what gets work done.  It isn’t even what marks something you do as spectacular.

Inspiration isn’t what makes your piece of work sparkle or pop;  it’s your skill, handiwork, + talent.

Inspiration can give you a surge of thought + a push to begin, but it’s what you’ve done leading up to the surge that defines it’s presentation + impact; it’s your disciple + what you’ve been doing to steward + develop your skill well.

Because in the end, inspiration without work is nothing.

And when you’ve mastered your talent you won’t need inspiration to make it great.

Work without inspiration + inspiration will find you.

Work because what you produce is captured by people’s hearts because of it’s delivery, not the beginning thought.

Harbor your talent.

Grow it + grow it.

And don’t let the lie that inspiration is what makes it ruin your opportunity to produce something great.

If it’s between work + inspiration, pick work every time. 

The Hope Of A Wildflower

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“Wildflowers seemingly embody adventure, freedom + beauty. They grow where they please, bringing life to each place that they spring up from while painting the landscape in beautiful hues.” – Darling Magazine, issue 3

Today I finally had the chance to read the latest issue of Darling Magazine. It’s a stunning magazine (+ website!) encapsulating the art of a woman. One of the articles that grabbed my attention was a practical + beautiful piece on taming wildflowers.

But the quotes used to compliment the piece is what got me thinking. And so I went digging a little deeper into wildflowers.

“wildflower” = A flower of an uncultivated variety or a flower growing freely without human intervention.

// Wildflowers thrive in whatever soil they find themselves in.

// Wildflowers grow with little help from people.

// Wildflowers are low maintenance.

// Wildflowers are bright + beautiful, adding colour to their landscape.

// There is no one type of wildflower – there are many.

// Many wildflowers contain spices or medicinal properties too.

To be a wildflower means to not only survive but to thrive, in any situation. Going through a bad season in life? Thrive! Going through the most favourable time of your life? Thrive! Running low in resources? Thrive! Whatever environment – thrive!

But not only that, wildflowers have great spark + value. They bring healing when broken + flavour to whatever they’re added to. Even though they may not have been purposefully planted, they are not bound by their environment + bring forth something enriching.

Above all, their greatest hope is that no matter where they are, they will grow.

“You belong among the wildflowers, you belong somewhere close to me. Far away from your trouble and worries you belong somewhere you feel free.” – Tom Petty, Wildflowers

Be a Little Adventurous, Darling.

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I’m not very adventurous.

I try to be. I want to be.

But it’s just not me.

I’d love to say that I spend my weekends hiking through the mountains, enjoying the sunshine on beaches, discovering new cafes + towns… but I can’t. Not yet anyway.

See, I’m a creature of comfort; a natural homebody.

No need to leave the house? No worries *makes cup of tea + explores the online world instead*

Right now two of my favourite girls in the world are in New York City. I love it! They’ve been dreaming about going for ages, saved money, wrote a list of everywhere they wanted to go, took the plunge in booking things, + are currently exploring the city that never sleeps.

These next two weeks I’m house sitting in one of Melbourne’s gorgeous bay + beach areas – parts of it completely takes me back to Rhode Island in the States. It’s an area I’ve gone to a few times, but to live down there is an entirely different experience.

There are lot’s of cute cafes, scenic routes to walk, ships + boats to watch, houses to admire + add to your “I’m gonna buy it someday” list, + so much more.

Being in this environment gives you the drive to get out + explore. For someone who likes to live in comfort, this is the perfect opportunity to kickstart this adventurous streak.

And so, I’ve decided to give myself a challenge:

// Go explore somewhere new each + every day //

Explorations thus far:

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Right now as I type this, I’m sitting in a café on the main road. The café I was originally going to go to was closed. Naturally, this made me a little frazzled because my plans were changed… But really, it was an opportunity to explore somewhere else. And I’m so glad I did – great view to ‘people watch’, delicious chai, nice music, hilarious conversations to overhear.

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Earlier this morning I went for a walk down along the bay + beach. On my way back there was a park reserve. I started to walk past it + then decided to go in there – tall, luscious trees, a pond with ducks + beautiful plants. So worth the detour.

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This cute + classy restaurant is right on the bay next to the boats + has a pretty view of the city. It’s also one of the main places that reminds me of the Rhode Island. Big fat love for it!

Why do it?

I don’t want to live adventure through books + motion pictures.

I don’t want to be hearing about places but not experiencing them for myself.

I don’t want to be someone who’s such a homebody that she forgets that she was created to explore + thrive in the world she was born to explore + thrive in.

I want to live life fully, have stories to tell, places to know about to show others, + kick comfort in the butt.

I’m sure over time it will develop into something more adventurous than walking routes around town + cute cafes. But for now, that’s fine with me.

Little by little. Step by step. Experience is what changes, grows, + moulds us. And adventure is an experience worth having.

So grab your mug of tea, raise it in the air, + say a big cheers to… being a little adventurous, darling.

// If you’re being a little adventurous too, share your experiences below. Would love to hear all about it + cheer you on, x

Much love xxx

PS: this is Nicholas, the cat I’m looking after while housesitting. I wanted to watch the The Voice Australia + journal. He didn’t like that plan + wanted a snuggle. So I took selfies with him. He wasn’t too unimpressed. What a munchkin.

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Enjoy The Little Things

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enjoy the little things in life, for one day you’ll look back + realise they were the big things.” – Robert Brault  

‘Enjoy the little things’ has naturally (+ surprisingly) become one of my motto’s for 2013.

Sometimes we focus on + try to enjoy the big things so much that we forget to focus on + enjoy the little things.

I don’t want to go through life remembering having only enjoyed the big things – how sad! I want to enjoy the details, each tiny step, + the seemingly ordinary things throughout the day as well. I think that’s what living a full life is all about – enjoying each + every part of it: the big, the little, the things stuck in the cracks, the dirt, the sunshine, the setbacks, the progresses, the tears, + the smiles.

Each morning my day begins by eating either yoghurt with oats + berries, or chia seed + oat porridge out of the bowl above in the picture. Not only is the bowl adorably cute, but it has that beautiful reminder on it.

If we only enjoy, admire + respect the big, we’ll miss out on enjoying a great big chunk of our lives.

Because after all, the big is made up of the littles. And if we don’t enjoy the little, how can we ever enjoy + appreciate the big in all its fullness?

And in the end, how can we ever enjoy + appreciate our life in all its fullness?

:: little things I’m currently enjoying ::

breakfast + brunch – love love love!! // hot cups of tea // that I can drive + own a car // the smell of rain // music // fresh fruit // reading // cooking // writing + editing // connecting with new people on Twitter // packing (begin house sitting!)

:: what little things are you enjoying? ::